A friend is someone who stands by you in times of trouble, someone who refuses to let go of your hand even when life becomes difficult. But you don’t have to wait for hardships to arrive before recognising a true friend. The people you spend time with, socialise with, and share your thoughts with may not always wish the best for you. If you fail to recognise genuine friends while there is still time, the regret may be yours later.

Recognise whether your ‘friend’ is truly worthy of your trust through these signs:

Notice how they react to your success

You can understand a lot just by observing your friend’s reaction when you share good news. A true friend celebrates your achievements wholeheartedly. But if someone grows uneasy or envious when you succeed, it may reveal that their friendship isn’t as genuine as it seems.

The friend is extremely self-centred

Every conversation somehow ends up revolving around them. No matter how it begins, they steer the discussion back to their own stories, problems, or achievements. Such people rarely think about others and often lack empathy. Friendships built around this kind of self-centeredness seldom turn out to be genuine.

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You're always the one making contact. Your friend doesn't call or message on their own. They don't want to maintain contact. It's better not to keep much contact with such people. They only contact you when they need something. Such people can't be anyone's friend.

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Friends are recognised in times of trouble. If a friend only stays by your side during good times and avoids you during difficulties, then recognising such people becomes easy. Some people stay close to you only to fulfil their own needs. Once their needs are met, they can no longer recognise you. Maintain distance from such people.

They praise you to your face. But as soon as they're out of sight, they become busy criticising you. A true friend will tell you both good and bad things, and that too to your face. If you make any wrong decision, they'll show you the right path. They'll even criticise you if necessary. But they won't criticise or speak ill of you behind your back.