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'It was daan, not dahej', says YouTuber Arun Panwar amid ₹71 lakh controversy

Arun Panwar faces backlash over ₹71 lakh wedding cash gift. Couple defends it as voluntary donation, not dowry, sparking social media debate.

By Subinita Basak

Apr 23, 2026 20:15 IST

Indian content creator Arun Panwar, who has 2.4 million YouTube subscribers, is at the centre of a public debate over a large cash gift received at his wedding. The controversy resurfaced recently on X, two months after the original incident in February.

As per the X post, during his wedding ceremony, Panwar received ₹71 lakh in cash from his wife's family. Critics accused him of accepting dowry, which is a criminal offence under Indian law. The backlash prompted Panwar and his wife to release a joint clarification video.

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The couple's defence

Panwar argued that the money was "daan" - a voluntary religious donation and not "dahej," the Hindi term for dowry. "Despite being a doctor, she chose me, a YouTuber. Can you imagine a YouTuber asking a doctor for dowry?" he said, calling the accusation absurd.

He also turned to his wife during the video and asked, "Even if I asked for dowry, would you give it?" She replied, "Nahi (no)."

In the X post, his wife stated that Panwar had no prior knowledge of the amount. "When he sat down for the lagan sagai pooja, it was a kind of surprise for him too," she said. "And we didn't expect that this amount ₹71 lakh would be perceived as so big."

Panwar added that his wife comes from a wealthy family, saying "Kyunki bhai ye paise wali firm hai." He further said, "Inko lagta hi nahi vo note bada. Logon ko pata nahi kyun lag raha hai."

His wife compared the sum to everyday purchases. "If you buy gold or a car for ₹71 lakh, it won't sound like a big amount," she said. The controversy, she argued, arose only because the word "dowry" was attached to it.

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Public reaction

"Try to get cash more than 10 lakh from a single account and banks are supposed to report to the IT department and here people are flaunting 70 lakh cash as if it's not a big deal," one user wrote on X.

"So much education, but doesn't know that dowry is illegal? It might be a small amount for you guys but what's illegal is illegal," another commenter said.

The debate continues to grow on social media, with opinions divided over intent, tradition, and the law.

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