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More than friends, less than lovers – the rise of queer platonic bonds

Queerplatonic relationships are deep, committed bonds that go beyond friendship without being romantic or sexual, allowing people to define connection on their own terms.

By Poulomee Mangal

Apr 06, 2026 00:16 IST

Is every relationship always marked as “friends” or "lovers"? In a world that often funnels every close human connection into either “just friends” or "in a romantic relationship”, many people often find themselves searching for a third space, one that honours deep emotional intimacy, commitment, and even life partnership without any expectation of love and sex.

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All about queer platonic relationships

The term 'queerplatonic relationship' emerged from aromantic and asexual communities; its appeal has grown far wider, offering a liberating framework for anyone who has ever felt that traditional labels don't quite fit their most meaningful bonds. A queerplatonic partnership involves living together, sharing finances, raising children, or simply being each other's primary emotional partners, all without the conventional trappings of dating, jealousy, or physical passion.

As per Cosmopolitan reports, “Queerplatonic relationships challenge the idea that romance is the only way to be close to someone,” says sex education expert Mariah Freya, founder of Beducated.

Origin of queer-platonic relationships

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Historically, queer people have often had to create their own family structures due to both rejection from blood relatives and the inability to create ‘traditional families’ by way of marriage and reproduction that existed within much of modern Western society.

According to the Cosmopolitans' report, Carly S, a sex educator, says, "Queerplatonic relationships are chosen family and life partners that you’re not having sex with, but you share other intimate parts of your life with that you wouldn’t share with your standard friend.”

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